I’m Stacey and I’m one of July’s Motivating Mums. I’m 33, married and a mum of 3. Before I was married and had my kids, I lost 20kgs. But I did it all by going to the gym. I was obsessive, I would go 6 days a week, doing personal training multiple times a week.Not once did I change or educate myself on what I ate. If anything, I was eating less than 1200 calories a day and gorging when my body was deprived. After I met my now husband I became comfortable. Going to the gym slowly diminished. Not long after getting married, I fell pregnant with our first son. Through my whole pregnancy my diet was average. I didn’t just eat for 2, I ate for the whole of Australia. The weight stacked on after I had him, eating healthy & exercising were so far from my radar.
I soon fell pregnant with my second son. I didn’t exercise at all during my second pregnancy and my food intake by this stage was so unhealthy. My second son was born with multitude health and development issues. I returned to work when he was 4 months old and spiraled into severe PND and my anxiety was like I had never experienced. Every day was a struggle and I either binged or starved. I had no healthy relationship with food and my weight peaked at an unhealthy 100kgs.
In early 2015, I got the surprise of my life to find that I was expecting another baby. My whole pregnancy was a struggle. Dealing with the emotions of a surprise baby, my youngest sons therapy needs and life, I struggled to keep my head above water and there was nothing healthy about what I was eating.
In January this year, I returned to work when our little girl was 5 months old. I was tipping the scales at 100kgs again. I was riddled with anxiety and my PND was rapidly reappearing. I joined the Healthy Mummy 28 Day Challenge and ordered my first round of smoothies within 4 days of being back at work. For the first time in over 6 years I was taking control of my health. For the first time in my life I now have a healthy relationship with food. I no longer binge or starve. I no longer feel guilt around eating.
Over the last 6 months I have lost 18kgs. The bulk of my weight loss is due to my new focus of clean eating and what I have learned from The Healthy Mummy about fueling my metabolism. I do exercise, but my primary focus has been the change in what I eat. Part of me had accepted that I would be overweight and unhealthy until my kids were grown up and I had more time to myself. I knew that I could lose the weight focusing purely on exercise.
Had I learned the importance of food sooner, I like to think I wouldn’t have reached that weight. But I am forever grateful for finding the 28 Day weigh loss challenge Challenge, which provides me with everything I need. Healthy Mummy is providing me the knowledge to pass on to my kids, so that they never suffer the unhealthy relationship with food that I have.
For the month of June, I was unable to do high intensity exercise due to a back injury. I was scared of the scales. They barely moved. But that is just merely a number. The changes in my photos, tell a different picture.